Thank you, Laurie and Wanda, for considering this issue with me. I very much appreciate your thoughts.
Wanda, I actually signed on today just to apologize for what I wrote yesterday- I didn't mean to suggest that you and Jerry Schilling were going to steal all of Elvis's thunder and bring him down with your contemplation of whether or not he had bipolar disorder. I feel I expressed myself poorly there. I'm sorry!
Laurie, thank you for putting this so clearly:
Blue Moon wrote:Well, I'm in agreement with Golden Sky about being wary of all these new "disorder" discoveries. For every new disorder, there is a new pill to go with making the drug companies even richer, and at the same time not dealing with the emotional (or possibly nutritional) causes; plus there are always side effects.
That's how I see things, too. I'm reading an excellent book called
Comfortably Numb: How Psychiatry is Medicating a Nation, by Charles Barber. It is definitely an eye-opener, and it includes many revealing statistics about how America is the technically the most "mentally ill" nation, because we consume BY FAR the most psychiatric drugs. One reason for this, probably the most significant, is that drug companies are allowed to market prescription drugs, including psychiatric drugs, directly to consumers here, unlike almost everywhere else in the world (except New Zealand), where such marketing is (rightly) illegal. Of course, people self-diagnose and respond to these ads, pressuring their doctors for prescriptions... and doctors cave in to requests 50% of the time, studies show. So we have a situation where people are labeled with various problems and disorders (which they usually, technically, don't even have) just to obtain the wonderful, cheerful, mental resilience that these drugs (falsely) promise on TV. That's America for you.
The author of this book talks about how, in his work with the homeless, mental illness was seen as something to be ashamed of in the 80's, but with the advent of Prozac and that direct-to-consumer marketing (legalized in 1997), metal illness is now regarded as almost "hip." He cites the trend in movies toward showcasing and glorifying sufferers of mental illness and points out that many Oscar-winning films now portray, and in a bittersweet or twisted way even glorify, mental illness. These are the "Beautiful Mind" sorts of movies. It's something to think about.
I guess for the most part, in modern America, it's "okay" to be bipolar? That seems to be the general sentiment: it's just a disease, nothing to be ashamed of. But I think as we grow more enlightened as a nation and put drugs in the proper perspective, the disorder may possibly lose its relevance or current acceptability. I think that's worth considering as we think about labeling anyone posthumously with any of our current psychiatric jargon- will the benevolence of the label wear off and leave these people essentially "slandered"? The posthumous labeling seems to be a new trend that may get out of control, and often strikes me as purely condescending (to say Mozart was "hyperactive" or that Jefferson was "Obsessive Compulsive.") Many people already believe bipolarity is over-diagnosed (just like ADD), and have little patience for hearing that this, that, and the other person are now "bipolar." Still others think the disorder doesn't even exist, so of course, Wanda, if you propose that Elvis may have had bipolar disorder, you'll encounter some skeptics and criticism. (And if you neglect to suggest bipolarity, you might encounter other critics!

Can't win.)
If I read that Elvis was bipolar, I might be upset, not only about the label but just remembering all the troubles he had. My own guess is that Elvis was the type of person who wouldn't want a diagnosis like that- that he would be upset if he knew future generations would say he was mentally ill. That's just my guess. I asked a good friend of mine for her opinion this morning and she disagreed with me, saying it will invoke sympathy and acceptance for Elvis if people can see he was suffering with a disease, and he'd want that acceptance. (?) I just don't know... I defer to you here, Wanda.

But to explain my own position more clearly, I should say I AM biased here. A close member of my family was diagnosed as bipolar, and I truly feel that the diagnosis was ultimately more damaging to our family than that person's behavior in itself. The diagnosis seemed to erase accountability from the picture, jammed up the works of conflict resolution, and caused more problems than it solved. I don't know how to summarize almost 20 years of experience here, but I did want to mention I'm not the most objective critic in the world when it comes to this issue.

In spite of all those thoughts, Wanda, if you believe that it's the honest truth that Elvis had this disorder, I wouldn't want to try and dissuade you from saying what you feel should be said. I trust you'll weigh it and word it carefully, to make the issue clearer than it was before you tackled it, and minimize any negative backlash or confusion about your friend. I trust you completely to do your best with it.

Blue Moon wrote: I do not believe bipolor is due to a chemical imbalance. I think it is most likely an emotional disorder brought about by post traumatic syndrome.
That's so very interesting, Laurie. The family member I mentioned above was diagnosed after someone close to her was diagnosed as terminally ill, and shortly before this person died. Maybe she just internalized everything and never recovered.
I went to the website you shared with us and found many interesting things there. Lately I'm in a happy, optimistic, balanced frame of mind, and was relieved because I feel I don't need Roy Masters advice (today, at least

Thank God.) But I see the wisdom in him. So I thank you.
Wishing you all a beautiful day,
Trish
p.s. Wanda, I forgot to ask- are you talking about the new HPV vaccines for girls? Thank you for the heads up, I had no idea the vaccines could cause warts.