by Wanda June Hill » Tue Aug 05, 2008 9:10 pm
No, he never did change- he remained the good natured, obedient son his parrents tried to raise in some hard times. He spoke of being punihsed, various things, a few times he said, and also said, he "deserved more'n he got" because he had been strong headed and didn't listen or mind his parents. He never did hold a grudge either, excused his dad's laspes saying, "he was always doin' jobs too hard for him 'n it hurt his back from when he was young and a field hand" etc:. And his mom worked hard too, so he tried to help all he could and would make dinner so she wouldn't have to etc:...and he even told me about doing the laundry on a wash board for her to surprise her for her birthday when she had to work- he was about l0 at that time- she was so pleased he said...and in telling that, he sounded about l0.
it's so funny not in a happy way, that the only people who ever put him down and say bad things, think them about him, are the ones he had working for him, living with him and who seemed to feel he never gave them enough, credit, money, attention, praise etc;... and who say he lied, hated women, had no sense of decency or concern for any female, and that he used them, tossed them out for a better one, and didn't care what happened to his rejects. Everyone else around him, including those "rejects" say the opposite and still love and care for his memory.
And most would give just about anything to spend time with him again, men and women, and many have a great desire and need to be with him again in the here after.
Elvis didn't change, he grew, he learned, he practiced what he believed, and he tried to help, serve, comfort, excite and teach, and gave unbaised love to everyone he met, young, old, in between and all races and colors- he didn't care. If you didn't speak English he hugged you any way and he looked into your eyes and let you know he cared... it was tangible as if he had spoken it.
Andhe was the biggest super star the world has ever known and probably shall remain so until this world ends and a new one begins. And then I think he'll be there- guiding, teaching and loving everyone and every moment of it. I am going to be there. Let's load the bus!
wjh
Wanda June Hill
author of "We Remember, Elvis" & "Elvis - Face to Face"