by Wanda June Hill » Wed Aug 16, 2006 12:19 am
Hey Mary, such a wonderful story and I'm so glad you found ELC and Elvis here as well. This is a great group of people and growing all the time. Everyone can be open as they want to be and no one will point fingers or make put downs about anything said by anyone. It is an amazing place really, when compared to some of the other sites. Maia has done such a beautiful job putting this site together and giving me a website as well. I have learned a great deal from the other members-things I needed to learn-mainly that it's okay to talk about Elvis now, and that people do care about him still and how much he's done for so many and still is doing those things. I am aware there are people out there who do not believe me and say some pretty outlandish things that I supposededly did, said and etc: but it doesn't bother me because I know what I know and they just can't accept that Elvis had a life outside of what they considered to be "his life" as they knew it. The man needed reality now and then and he sure wasn't finding it in them-or their actions- Thank god there were people around him who did understand, saw what he was all about and appreciated him for himself-and very few of them there were among the mm group. I wasn't an "insider" by choice and because I quickly realized it wasn't a place I'd want to be-not because of Elvis -no, it was because of the "guys" and what I witnessed going on behind Elvis' back....right from the first day in fact.
Had Elvis not kept the friendship going, it would not have grown-he made the choice and not because of anything I said or did to get him to do it. I still don't know why, but it's beginning to have some sort of reasoning now, he wanted someone outside his circle to know certain things about his reality, his life behind the scenes and he chose to share those things with me. And gave me permission and honored me with his trust. He still has that-and I don't care who says what or what offers I get, there isn't enough money, fame or glory in this world we live in to buy his trust from me. Believe me some have tried-and leave glassey eyed and gasping most of the time. But that's okay, I rest easy most of the time... it's just getting older that sometimes keeps me awake... not my conscience for sure! Have a great time reading ELC-there is so much of it...but Sue has brought lots of older things forward so it's easier to do now for those just coming on. Most Welcome! wjh
Wanda June Hill
author of "We Remember, Elvis" & "Elvis - Face to Face"