Wanda,
I share with you (and Elvis)
the importance of concreting what we ask for. The more detailed we may get it, the more it'll work, because we are creating first the "matrix" of it in our mind, to have it materialized after that.
so me and my bro is the only two to make these changes only we don't know how to do..a big mounting is in front of us,
When we are thinking in terms of "mountains", the mere idea of it
blocks us. A better approach is
to clarify the objective we are aiming to. It is our North. Then
settle a strategy, step by step, to reach it. We have to leave aside the fear of not being capable of doing it. Emotions blur our clarity and contaminate our inner tools, like intuition and vision. It is
the strongest will power that
must take command, imperturbable.
Fears only sabotage our aims.
As I see it, a good way to approach questions like this, is to
assume a professional like attitude. Emotions helped us to detect a need for a change. It's OK. We take that signal on account and let the emotional rest. Then we start taking care of the situation and how to resolve it.
Once the situation is defined, we set an objective and design a plan in short, middle and long term. We do
not identify with the emotions that triggered our awareness and we set our attention positively in what is ahead to be done, day and night, night and day, steadily, without rush but persistently,
everything in us converging to the objective. (We are attentive to being caught by stress, taking some frequent moments along the day to observe points in our body contracted, and relaxing them.)
Need creates the function and it is real.