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Postby maia » Sun Mar 12, 2006 4:29 pm

Due to some very negative and insulting posts on the TCB Forums concerning Wanda, I wrote the following and posted it there:

I am 57 years old and saw Elvis perform live from 1969-1975 - 36 shows in all, mostly in Vegas and most of those I sat by the stage. I came to know people who knew him. NOT the MM guys, but others who worked in the hotel or came often..some “gate-girls”, etc.

I have in the past written Elvis articles and show reviews for Rex Martin, Strictly Elvis, Reflections (Charlie Hodge and Dan Mingori’s publication in the late 1970's), Elvis World, and several other Elvis magazines through the years. All this under my former name of “Christine Hayes”.

After Elvis’ death I came to know Wanda June Hill and some of the other people like her, who developed friendships with Elvis mostly over the telephone at first, due to his reaching out to them...to ordinary people who were not originally “Elvis fans”. How did he find them? On movie sets (extras, etc.) was one way. Once he had a “phone friend” he would call THEIR friends or family members.

Wanda Hill did not write her first book alone...she does not tell her story alone. There were 13 others in her Elvis phone group, and they knew Elvis had others he called like that as well. All 13 and Wanda contributed to her story. I have known Wanda now for about 26 years. She is one of the most sane, loving and honest people I know. I have met some others of the 13 and they are also nice, decent, normal people.

I have listened to (many times) excerpts from Wanda’s recorded conversations with Elvis. I have read almost all the transcripts of these conversations. I heard on those tapes the same man who spoke on the stage in Vegas at rare times in a confidential tone of voice different from the stage “Elvis”. When he would switch to that voice he was no longer “Elvis Presley” but instead became Gladys Presley’s boy. When I first listened to Wanda’s tapes I didn’t hear “Elvis Presley” speaking, but Gladys’ boy. I knew without a doubt at that moment that it WAS Elvis. It was the very same voice he switched to on a very rare few occasions on stage...lost in thought, in memory of the past, sharing with his audience just as he shared with Wanda and other of his phone friends. Then he would snap back and be “Elvis” again and get on with the show.

Much of Wanda’s tapes, transcripts and letters written by Elvis...many to her directly, reveal private information that would not be publically known, but which I already knew, at least in part from the other people I had met before who knew Elvis. In other words, her “Elvis” matched theirs. Not only in personality, but in certain private details of his life.

Before you “cast your stones” at Wanda June Hill I ask you to stop and think how people do exactly the same thing to Elvis. They hear a snatch of something someone says about him, or hear just one song...maybe “Hound Dog”, and he becomes a drugged-out eccentric who couldn’t sing much and was a dumb as they come. Are you willing to make the same judgement call about someone because you read one letter and scanned over a website quickly? Especially when NOTHING on that website or of Wanda’s story about Elvis is negative, invasive or dis-respectful of his memory?

Would Elvis himself make negative statements about another human being he didn’t know and had barely any information on? As he said, “Don’t judge someone you don’t know, son. You never walked in that man’s shoes.”

If you wish to take a more unbiased look at Wanda’s story, the letters, documents, etc:

http://www.elvislightedcandle.org/WJH/wjh_index.htm

I will not be responding any further to dis-respectful postings on the TCB Forums. Many thanks to those of you who are reading this with an open mind and heart.


One of the TCB Forum theads which prompted my response above:

http://www.tcb-world.com/showthread.php?t=6898
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re: statement

Postby ElvisWoman » Sun Mar 12, 2006 5:48 pm

Hi Maia:

I am truly sorry that you and Wanda have been getting negative feedback on what you provide for us in this wonderful site of yours. I will tell you one thing--by you and Wanda providing us very moving and inspirational information about our boy has made a significant impact on my life. Thank you both for all that you do!

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Postby Lighthouseseeker » Sun Mar 12, 2006 6:21 pm

Maia,
I'm really sorry too..I think most people lost their belief for good..evil is the trend these days so this side of Elvis is always unreal for them to accept..don't worry much..
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Postby maia » Sun Mar 12, 2006 6:55 pm

Yes, I agree...it is dificult for many people to believe GOOD things and easy for them to believe bad ones. Yet I recieve many wonderful e-mails from people like all of you, who thank Wanda and I for doing this. We do it for Elvis AND for Spirit...as that was why he believed he was put here on this earth...to serve Spirit through his example and eventually teachings. This last part is being carried out to some extent after he is physically gone from this world.
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Postby Rainbow Light » Mon Mar 13, 2006 10:30 am

Hi Maia and Wanda

Firstly, such a great, well-worded response! Know it's easier said than done but please don't let yourself be worried or brought down by such negative, pure cold cynicism as is on the TCB Forum.

Please keep up the good work that you do with the lighted candle website and the ELC Forum. What you do for Elvis and Spirit, giving us memories and insights about Gladys' boy (!), especially in light of what the Stanleys and Co, say really do mean more than you know and probably realise.
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Postby Guest » Tue Mar 21, 2006 2:40 pm

TCB forum there are a lot of ignorant people. Very young most of the time and so full of their "so called truth" they know about Elvis. Their version is the one and only right one. I am having a discussion with them on the topic Linda Thompson. I do not know how I came there but when I stated that I happen to like Priscilla and that I really believe that Elvis really loved her and Lisa very much they all jumped on me. They were going nuts. They said I was not an elvisfan because I happen to like Priscilla. Mind you I know Priscilla made a lot of mistakes in the past and she was not an angel but I think she is not really a bad person. In my opinion she did a good job raising Lisa, she did a good job saving Graceland. She never ever mentioned Elvis in a bad daylight. She speaks with a lot of respect about him and I just loved EBTP.
On the TCB forum they even said I was blind. priscilla was a demon.
Oh my God this wasn't good for my blood pressure. They seem to like Linda a lot. They adore her and didn't care about the things I told them I just happen to know about her. I really was shocked when I saw The Princess of Malibu. Linda and her rotten spoiled sons and her ex husband made fun out of Elvis. They laughed with him and Linda seemed to enjoye putting him down. When I wrote that on the TCB forum they said that is was normal that Foster told in the programm "Elvis died and he was fat". To them that was quite allright to tell but EBTP they all disliked A LOT.
Strange people out there, really :roll:

http://www.tcb-world.com/showthread.php?t=7062&page=7
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Postby renenutet » Tue Mar 21, 2006 3:13 pm

I think that at one time Priscilla loved Elvis. But she devorced him, and as far as I'm concerned that's when her love for him ended. If she truely loved him she would have stayed maried to him.

I don't know if she did such a good job raising Lisa. It is not up to me to judge.

I can't help it. I just don't like Priscilla. She hurt Elvis. She caused him a lot of pain.

But as I said, it's really not up to me to judge.
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Postby Lighthouseseeker » Tue Mar 21, 2006 3:31 pm

Hi guest..no I won't jump on you because you admire her, but I feel the opposite since she always ridicules and insults Elvis even when she looks like praising him..I see nothing spirituel,nothing sincere, nothing to compare to Elvis's soul maturity in her eyes and no don't think she is a good mother,she looks more like a dictator maybe she likes to rule..but I believe Lisa is a good mother..even in the dvd called Elvis by the Presleys she did what I mentioned above ..the image of Elvis the documentary gives ,is a man who is immature,selfish,macho,nuts( as he sees and hears things).. :roll: oh but she loved him in spite of all those faults.. :roll: I don't know her of course but don't like the way she speaks about him,writes about him(her book) and the way she runs the EPE..
of course we all have our own ideas and reasons to think so..
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Postby renenutet » Tue Mar 21, 2006 3:58 pm

Yes, I agree with Lighthouseseeker.

In Elvis by the Presley's she says what a good person Elvis was and how she loved him and what a good and caring person he was.

Makes me wonder ... why leave a man you admire so much?

Doesn't seem sincere to me.
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Postby Lighthouseseeker » Tue Mar 21, 2006 5:50 pm

a good person, but sees things while it was only the sprinkle water from the fountain..and you should see the insulting expression in her face,it just broke my heart..well isn't it worse not being able to see and to hear ..hope she can understand someday,somehow..
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" 'Cilla"

Postby Wanda June Hill » Wed Mar 22, 2006 12:35 am

Hi,

She was/is not my favorite person either, however I spent some time listening to Elvis praise her, laugh at things she did, like making bisquets that he ate but said when they got cold they'd made good hockey pucks.
And how cute he thought her nose was, how beautiful she was and that when she walked into a room she took his breath away-that after they married! And that he would always love Priscilla, she was the mother of his beloved child, and that she had tried to love and care for him but she was just too young and being the man and older, he felt he had failed to realize that difference. He said, "I made a mistake keeping her so shelterd like I did, in my world; should of let her go and try her wings first, but I protected her, kept her in my world and she didn't have a chance. It's my fault-I'm man enough to admit it."
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Postby Lighthouseseeker » Wed Mar 22, 2006 7:53 am

Thanks Wanda..yes he was man enough to admit this,to see his own mistakes,he had the biggest heart with a huge capacity of love even for the ones who don't care for him much..that's why I'm expecting more respect for the man,from his ex-wife ..she was young then,but she is not now..this DVD was meant to be for the next generations to know Elvis,but I'm not happy with the result..
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Postby renenutet » Wed Mar 22, 2006 4:48 pm

I'm convinced that Elvis loved her very much.
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Postby Wanda June Hill » Wed Mar 22, 2006 5:48 pm

I know that he did-but I also believe that his first choice was Ann-Margaret whose name I think is spelled Margret
but any way, they both had red-hot careers-her's just starting for her and she wouldn't give it up for him just as he would't give his up for "Cilla". He chose-and just maybe it was fate-maybe Lisa had to be born of their gene pool? Maybe there is some higher reason than simply what we think, know and suspect? Myabe his grandchildren are going to do something unique and
spiritually wonderful one day? Or theirs? That's one question I plan to learn the answer to when I make the transistion from flesh and spirit to all spirit! For right now, I fully understand people's opinions, varied as they are. My husband and daughter are right there among them-both of them never did, still don't have the least
appreciation of her or suspect any thing she does or says in Elvis' behalf. And I'm pretty much standing real close to their opinions-I try to see her side, at least to acknowledge it-but it's difficult. Almost on the same vein as the 3 famous trash mouths-soon to be another added to that list. As for to day's younger persons being "evil minded"-it must be because they have lived and are going to be living in really "evil" filled times? I was a "bomb" baby and we thought that was bad then-so much worse is it out there today.
We all need to practice sending good vibes, spiritual love and acceptance to all the earth's people. It's on it's way to "hell" in a hand-basket as the "olden" ones used to say. (My dad and his momma). Wjh Peace and good will to all. And the best of health.
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Postby Rainbow Light » Thu Mar 23, 2006 8:53 am

Very interesting to read all these various responses specially about Priscilla. On the one hand I have great respect and appreciation for the fact that Elvis did love and cherish her and could see from the photos of the wedding that he looks so in love and happy - that's what I want to see and know and be happy for him, you know? That is what should be important to those caring for his wellbeing.
I enjoyed seeing Patsy, Lisa, Pris, Danielle Riley and Ben, all the family back at Graceland on EBTP especially for Christmas and I'm sure, had Elvis known, he would have loved it! His family together again and Pauline, the cook etc - really nice.

Yet you just know there's gonna be a BUT, right?! And there is!! I do take the point from Zey about Priscilla: even when she seems to be praising Elvis with what she says in EBTP, she's actually not. She's almost got the knack of double-talking - ie giving people the impression she's talking well of Elvis and the way she does it is pretty subtle but at the same time she's insulting and criticising him too. I definitely agree not to mention I think her intent was to try and steal the limelight and do the 'poor little me' thing at the same time?! Maybe one day she will be able to understand and is trying to but I just don't see much evidence of it so far, that's all?

I've heard Danielle Riley, the grand-daughter is into modelling but any idea what Ben is up to these days? Don't always know 100% as far as Lisa goes but believe she does love her Dad deep down, even if sometimes she seems to have a funny way of showing it!! :?

As far as Ann Margret goes: Elvis and she MOST certainly had an on-screen chemistry goin' on in "Viva Las Vegas" and an off-screen relationship for sure but no, she would not give her career up for him. Have read her biography and she said some lovely and very positive things about Elvis in it but also realised she wanted to go as far as she could in her own career but I believe she attended his funeral as well as many other celebrities?
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