by Wanda June Hill » Sun Jun 10, 2007 8:37 pm
Having been on the receiving end of Marty's comments I have to say that I have an open minded approach to anyone who says they knew Elvis, met him or spoke with him over the years. From my own experience with Elvis, anything can happen! And if it could, it will as he said several times! Never ceases to amaze me either.
Bill Miller may well be telling the truth and Marty may well have been "on the outside" of that connection. Elvis was secretive about many things, he said so himself and as for his mom and dad and their treatment of him, I can easily see from what other people who were THERE as neighbors, relatives and friends who have said on occasion, in all innocence as back then that was not considered "abuse" when one punished or corrected a child with some physical method like spanking etc:...Elvis himself said that his mom would put him in the closet until he promised to "be good". Others who saw certain things said that his mother slapped him down to the floor when he disobyed or spoke out of turn. His father did drink and Elvis said he was "rough" at times on his mother and on him when doing this-these were in the poorest days of his early life. At that time in history, it was not uncommon for a man to be so down hearted that he didn't go drinking to forget it-it was normal and not something "evil" or whatever one might term it to be now days. Neither was spanking or putting a kid in a closet wrong-that became standing or sitting in a corner later, and look at today, one cannot spank a child without someone saying "child abuse". Times change, people change ideas and people forget the past-sometimes with help from alcohol and drugs over an extended time- I am not saying Bill's whole story is true-I don't know what it is yet-having not been there or in on it, I have no clue other than what I know myself or someone I trust says-However I do know that Elvis did know someone named Bill and it was not Billy Smith or the Bill of his backup singers either...another guy named Bill whom he spoke to on the phone at one time and whom he appeared to have doing some checking up for him in regard to his then, wife. That's all I can say I know and even that might not be the same Bill. I have no way of knowing. However I will hold my thoughts until the guy comes out with his book-which has been long in coming. And as for the mm boys, well.....monkey see, monkey do for most of them.
And as for Elvis and his parents, he loved them dearly, he adored his mother and tried to live as she would want him to live, he went back to those days for solace, he spoke of her with such love and longing and he carried such a load of guilt over her death because he thought he had failed to pay attention, to be too absorbed in his own "woes" over being gone from his career etc: to see her failing health and in doing that, he didn't get her in the hospital soon enough. He felt he helped kill her and never totally recovered from that feeling, I don't think. He knew she was coming for him, and looked forward to being with her again. As for his dad, he said he had to "learn how to handle him as momma did" and then they got on okay. He loved him and Vernon loved his son, was so proud of him and he worried about him as a father will their child. Elvis tried to make his dad's life good, even when they were at odds he respected him as his dad and give him great respect and never said disparaging things about him or his lack of education etc:...he might get angry with him, but he still gave him a son's respect. And he wanted him to be with him on tour and whereever so he could "look after him" etc:...and Vernon was looking after Elvis too, as a father does their child. He was so lost when Elvis died... so broken. Elvis forgave his dad and his mom for anything they might have hurt him for-in fact he said they instilled right and wrong into him and that every person needed that or they'd be lost and confused out in the world. He said his parents gave him "roots" and his mom gave him "character and a path to the Lord". What more could a child say of their parents? wjh
Wanda June Hill
author of "We Remember, Elvis" & "Elvis - Face to Face"